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The
Electromagnetism of Sexual Attraction
We always hear things like 'opposites attract' even when
speaking about people. Now, in electromagnetism this is quite
a true statement, but does it hold water even when speaking
about humans? Are there any laws that make people get
attracted to each other? Do certain people like only certain
kinds of people?
Is the concept of chemical attraction between people for real?
That may be the case. In many animals and in insects, at
least, this has been conclusively proved. Moths have a set of
chemicals known as pheromones which they release into the
environment when they want to find a partner. It is also found
that pheromones are used by ants in their colonies when they
are communicating with each other. Why, even the foulest of
odors, the smell of the skunks, is thought to be a kind of
pheromone. Apes have pheromones in their urines, with which
they anoint their partners' feet when mating. Pheromones are
especially important as mating signals in insects; these are
helpful to maintain the populations of insects as they help
them to find partners. In humans, these concepts are tried the
various deodorants which are trying to market their wares as
irresistible to the opposite sense. We have stories of the
musk deer that was hunted down for its aphrodisiacal musk.
Currently, scientists are trying to see how important human
pheromones are in selection of their sexual partners.
Different branches of science have different viewpoints on
this, and some of the sciences even deny that such human
pheromones do not exist at all. However, evidences are coming
into the limelight. In Switzerland, two professors in the
University of Bern captained by Klaus Wedekind showed some
encouraging results. The simple experiment showed that women
like to sniff at the shirts of men when they are ovulating,
and that women have preferences for different odors in their
men. When these results were probed further, it was found that
women with like preferences for odors of men also shared
similar genotypes. If researched further on this, the findings
can be used to formulate a method of producing healthier
babies in the future. Such studies are subjective too, because
the preference of a woman for the odor of her man will depend
on various factors like the diet of the man, the deodorants he
wears and whether they are using some kind of contraception or
not.
How important is personality in sexual attraction?
Personality is quite important in sexual attraction, and there
is no doubt about it. A 2003 study made by Klohnen, S. Luo and
E. C. has proved that attraction between people depends to a
large extent on the personalities of the people and the
amounts of security they find with each other. This study
definitely indicates that attraction is a very personal thing.
If you are attracted to someone, then it is not at all
necessary that someone else of your same gender will be
attracted to the same person also. In fact, the way you feel
about the person will be a strong determination of the way the
partner begins to feel about you – and that is where the
attraction begins. This is the reason why people have unique
preferences in the boyfriends and girlfriends that they look
out for.
What is the place of attraction in relationships?
All attractions are a precursor for making relationships. They
are starting points; they are what set the relationship going.
But it will be very wrong to assume that the attractions will
keep the relationships going. Attractions are just something
that draws you to a person initially. It is up to both of you
to work your way into a relationship after that, and that
could be by sharing and caring and having common experiences
together.
Is it necessary for us to spend so much time looking
attractive?
The wisest advice to give would be that overall beauty is much
more important than just physical attractiveness.
Attractiveness should come from all fields – mental,
emotional, spiritual and also physical. It is biologically
decided that we will like a certain person. But we have to
look into the emotional aspect also. Think about it yourself.
Would you like to have a relationship with yourself? That is a
good starting point. The important thing is to make a
self-realization of yourself and improve upon things. Be
healthy in all ways, and then the attractiveness will have
meaning. Also, be attractive for your own self. Do not perk
yourself up for others. The feeling of goodness should be
yours and for you alone. That is when your attractiveness will
really work.
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